Victims of dating app scams are being urged to speak out and report incidents, as fraud teams note a significant increase in blackmail cases, particularly targeting students. Experts emphasise the importance of confiding in trusted friends or family members to avoid falling prey to sophisticated fraudsters who exploit online relationships for financial gain or sextortion. The call to action comes amidst rising concerns over the prevalence and impact of these digital deceptions.
The Alarming Rise Of Sextortion
Sextortion, where criminals trick victims into sending explicit material and then use it for blackmail, is becoming increasingly common. Nationwide, one of the UK’s largest building societies, reports that these scams are now "commonplace" among students. Data from 33 police forces in England and Wales revealed a stark increase in blackmail cases referencing "sextortion," jumping from just 23 in 2014 to nearly 8,000 in 2023. This surge highlights the growing threat posed by online predators.
Key Takeaways For Online Safety
- Be Wary of Repetitive Language: Emma Evans, a student in Cardiff, recounted how a friend’s dating app match used the same phrases repeatedly, raising suspicions of an AI chatbot.
- Verify Profile Photos: Use search engines to check if profile pictures are stock images or have been used elsewhere.
- Seek a Second Opinion: If something feels off, share messages with a trusted friend or family member for an objective perspective.
- Avoid Oversharing: Never send intimate images or excessive personal information to someone you haven’t met in person.
- Report Incidents: If you are being blackmailed or scammed, report it to the authorities for help and support.
The Deceptive Tactics Of Scammers
Fraudsters employ various sophisticated methods to ensnare victims. They are described as "efficient and unrelenting," often exploiting emotional vulnerabilities. Beyond sextortion, criminals are also targeting bereaved families by impersonating them online and charging for fake funeral livestreams or soliciting donations through bogus pages. This despicable tactic preys on individuals during their most vulnerable moments, making it crucial for the public to remain vigilant and report any suspicious activity.
Don’t Suffer In Silence
Jim Winters, head of economic crime at Nationwide, stresses the importance of speaking up. "Blackmail is one of the hardest things to face and it’s happening more often," he stated. "It’s not easy but if something doesn’t feel right, speak up." He reiterated that once images or information are shared online, control over them is lost forever. The message is clear: confide in someone you trust and report scams to prevent further harm.



